OK, If u know ur hubbies cheating?
Author: admin Category: Idiot Proof Weight LossK, I have the proof and even called him on it.But idiot after all I do for him has basically traded me in on a newer model(shes 22)I wait on him hand and foot,Do everything u can imagine,hes 39 im 36.Im no beauty queen I understand that.Matter a fact I took my pic off till Yanni said put it back.Im 5′8 weigh 103 this morning.He says Im not fat but demands I take weight loss pills(im anorexic) and this broad is fugly!And built like crap.So basically is what Im asking, is what do U do at 36 when u have agoraphobia and so many disorders and he kows he can play upon that?I do luv him, in luv with him NO.But he knows that.He did that in with lil miss 22 year old.(hope she falls down stairs)I was told its midlife crisis.But I can’t forgive him.Cheating is wrong period, no matter what the situation.I feel lost and stupid,over 8 years with this man and I feel stupid!Any advice?And please dont be mean,Ive already been told I was horrid and wrinkly old,I cant change my looks,This is me.So HELP!
furry dolls?Sweetie, thi sman dnont even lay out his own towels,razors,deo,toothbrush,paste or clothes, I do all the house work,and wait ojn him as I should as A wife!WTF is a furry doll? He hasn’t fixed his own plate since we been married but maybe 3 times.
first let me start by saying the anorexia has been an 18 year battle, and I have gained weight.Doc says 25-30 pounds more but Its hard.And yanni, TY so much.U can add me to ur messy if u like!under i_am_one_of_u_2 U r a doll.TY,and for dude that says I deserve him, u must do ur old lady the same way huh?U best be glad u r not near me this morning!NO sleep no food makes one ill,and lets say southern gals no matter what we weigh would get u good
First off i will say good morning and that i am proud of you for being able to speak on this w/o being afraid of the ignorant things people tend to say. For me I am a very sensitive person and for these reasons I do not allow anyone to downgrade me in anykind of way Laurie! take care of yourself b/c if you do not your are not going to be good to anyone after hubbie if you decide to leave him ok? Sounds like to me he is using you and playing on the fact that you do not go out. he is playing on your insecurities that you allowed him to bestow upon you stop now! and take back order of your life. 103lbs Laurie? and diet pills? I dont like it! would say leave him for the simple fact that you need to make you better and somewhere along the way hubbie went selfish I have been through it and its easy to say leave him but hard to actually pull it off but for me when i was fed up i just did it and prepared myself for the pain but everyday its gets better he is a dirtbag, it is normal to feel silly b/c at some point in time you knew something was going on but you threw it behind you now its out in the open. You do not need him he now is extra baggage stop waiting on him stop cooking for him start meeting new people but first get some help Everything that you are right now reverse it on him start becoming a brand new Petshaven lol and his a$% will not like it. I wish i was there with you girl cause i am more of a hands on person this would not be happening to you trust me! you are none of those things that he call you and you would not have a problem once you get fed up and shock his a4$ with a reality check email me anytime you wanna talk about this
November 23rd, 2007
Blah you two deserve each other.
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November 23rd, 2007
I only read the first sentence. Any body that you have to wait on…is using you. I’ve watched my own brother do it. Please find someone who treats you like an equal!
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November 23rd, 2007
o bless go 1 better go get a feller ya self an do it 2 him watch him crawl hahaha
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November 23rd, 2007
sweetheart it causes u long term stress if ur so worried about getting fat stay on a healthy diet if u throw up ur teeth well turn yellow and decay u well grow oscerls in ur tummy plus exercise and eat like veggies fish eggs high and protein stuff it well help u take MUTI VITMANS u should gain a lil weight i went through this and i am better now please take my advice and god bless u
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November 23rd, 2007
Don’t worry about it.
MILFs are in high demand these days. You’ll get some guy in no time.
Just stop being anorexic… guys like meat on the bones.
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November 23rd, 2007
It certainly sounds bad. I understand you have feeling for him, but if he really does not care about you…?
First try being sweet to him, see if you can turn this around, if that doesn’t work, divorce
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November 23rd, 2007
If you give him more and better sex than her, the only other choice I could see would be for you to remove his balls.
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November 23rd, 2007
Maybe its time to give more attention to your hubby and get rid of your furry dolls, age and looks got nothing to do with it, if you don’t give him his needs some one else will, and since you think he’s not the right man for you maybe its time for you to walk away! you’re still young.
Good luck.
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November 23rd, 2007
There are at least 6 Divorce Lawyers for every man woman and child in the USA! … Open The Yellow Pages, close your eyes and pick one … and … take your Hubby for all the $$$ he’s got.
"Unless" of course your hubby is Wild Bill Clinton … then just run for President yourself with all the experience you’ll get handling Bimbo Eruptions and then have Bill slip you all the answers to ALL the campaign questions!!!
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November 23rd, 2007
I cant give advice on your eating disorder. But I do find that you have other areas in which you can divert your concentration to that is your kids and your little zoo.
I believe that a smart woman will choose the following:
1) pretend that u do not know anything and live on.
2) call it a day and live separate lifes (I believe that this will be very costly to him)
3) If both of you can still talk to each other choose a right time to talk it over.
I would prefer to settle things as adults ie. number 3 and move on if necessary. However, u must make sure that u are certify by the doctors that you are healthy and fine so that u can have the rights over your kids. So my fren use your energy to secure your rights instead of worrying over something that had happened.
I think you look just fine (unless that is your avatar).
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November 23rd, 2007
Love means you see past all our blemishes, our wobbly bits and stretch marks. It’s unforgivable that instead of trying to help you solve your problems that he’s thought instead of the little man in his trousers and gone off with a young bit of stuff. Also to use your problems as a weapon against you is unbelievably cruel.
As an agrophobic I understand you won’t be able to go out to find help but you obviously have the internet so try looking for help groups on there. Also for the anorexia (what sort of loving husband by the way, insists on you taking diet pills when you have anorexia? Does he want to kill you off or something?) get some advice there. There are helplines in our phonebooks so I presume you have something similar where you are. Call them. They’re better able to give advice than anyone as usually they have people working for them that have gone through the same thing.
I’m glad you’re not in love with him. I spent 17 years as a doormat with my husband till I booted him into touch and am with a man now who appreciates everything I do for him. All the hang ups I had about my body are gone because he likes me just as I am. Your man sounds like he was bad for you in every way and probably contributed to your problems. Better that he’s gone if you ask me.
I wouldn’t give his other woman a second thought. Just imagine it won’t be too long before he’s treating her exactly the same way he treated you. She’s welcome to that surely.
Good luck sweetheart I hope it all works out for you.
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November 23rd, 2007
counselors can settle this or urselvfes
sit down and relax
talk 4 a while
maybe u haven’t been payin’ much attention to him
have som quality time
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November 23rd, 2007
This is time to use your emotional intelligence. The love has changed into something less. The togetherness is gone. You already know it’s over. It’s always painful because of the time and emotion invested. Sometimes we just hang on and on and life just becomes-whatever. Fear not, you will find another.
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November 23rd, 2007
You just have low self esteem. Most people are average looking and we can all find happiness. I stayed with a man because I loved him and thought I could not do better. In the end he left me and I found someone else who treats me well. I thought I would end up alone if I left him. The truth is there are heaps of people at this age coming out of crap relationships who are lonely. If you have agorophobia you can meet people online. You have to get out there. I met someone out speed dating and I am super shy. . You will find someone to be in love with. Everyone deserves it and life is not a beauty contest. If you believe that only attractive people are happy then you will never be. Plus I am sure you are not horrid and wrinkly. Not everyone can be young and beautiful. But you can be happy you just need to start being positive
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November 23rd, 2007
First, you have got to start believing in yourself. You say that you have mental health issues that should be addressed. Get help for those. Start focusing on you.
This relationship with your husband is toxic for you. As difficult as it may seem, you must end it with him if you believe that there is no hope of repairing the relationship.
Being angry at the other woman and wishing her ill will is not going to help you at all. You must start moving forward.
If it is any consolation, there are many women and men who have had this exact same thing done to them. There is life after separation and divorce.
Take care of yourself and stop worrying about what has happened over the past eight years. This is just going to make you focus on the pain and not the healing.
For the record: it is doubtful that at 39 your husband is having a midlife crisis. He is a bit too young for that.
Good luck, Sweetie, and ignore the ignorant responses. I’ll be praying for you.
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November 23rd, 2007
this man is putting you down and making you feel so bad about yourself. you are not old, you are not ugly. get some help fromt he doctor to start getting over your disorders, but i think you will feel so much better about yourself if you leave him. if he wants to screw around with a 22yo that will leave him in a few months, thats his problem. dont let him make it yours.
you are strong, i bet you have friends that will help you, give you a place to stay or help you find yourself a little house. become your own person again, and start enjoying life! xx
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November 23rd, 2007
You can get really good advice at http://www.survivinginfidelity. com and good luck with everything.
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November 23rd, 2007
First off i will say good morning and that i am proud of you for being able to speak on this w/o being afraid of the ignorant things people tend to say. For me I am a very sensitive person and for these reasons I do not allow anyone to downgrade me in anykind of way Laurie! take care of yourself b/c if you do not your are not going to be good to anyone after hubbie if you decide to leave him ok? Sounds like to me he is using you and playing on the fact that you do not go out. he is playing on your insecurities that you allowed him to bestow upon you stop now! and take back order of your life. 103lbs Laurie? and diet pills? I dont like it! would say leave him for the simple fact that you need to make you better and somewhere along the way hubbie went selfish I have been through it and its easy to say leave him but hard to actually pull it off but for me when i was fed up i just did it and prepared myself for the pain but everyday its gets better he is a dirtbag, it is normal to feel silly b/c at some point in time you knew something was going on but you threw it behind you now its out in the open. You do not need him he now is extra baggage stop waiting on him stop cooking for him start meeting new people but first get some help Everything that you are right now reverse it on him start becoming a brand new Petshaven lol and his a$% will not like it. I wish i was there with you girl cause i am more of a hands on person this would not be happening to you trust me! you are none of those things that he call you and you would not have a problem once you get fed up and shock his a4$ with a reality check email me anytime you wanna talk about this
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November 23rd, 2007
guess he’s playing you because he can!
you look pretty damned good from here babe.
not horrid at all.
feel free to IM me if you want to chat
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